her: why does your blog say "love the leave"?
me: its sort of my motto

her: what does it mean?

me: it means that you have to learn to love leaving something behind

her: most people don't

me: thats the problem, people will not heal, grow, move on until they learn to love the change they made

her: oh

me: have you ever left a really bad thing in your life?

her: yes, i think everyone has

me: well, it's a matter of learning to love the fact that you left it, love the freedom from leaving it, love the new life you are creating from leaving it, love the choice you made, love the leave

her: love the leave

me: yup.

her: have you left?

me: yup.

her: did you love it?

me: i learned to. it hurt at first, very deeply, but once i learned to love the choice i made, my whole life changed.

her: love the leave.

me: love the leave.